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Once
there was Two
And now there’s Three
Our Little Blessing……
ALEXIS MARIE
Welcome to our little
piece of Heaven on earth. We are so thrilled to share with you, Our
“Little Blessing.”
As you read through our
story, look at our pictures, and share in our lives, please take a
moment to thank God, for your “Little Blessings”.
(My
Story)
Hi, it’s me, Alexis
Marie. Well, not really I’m still too, little! But I’m told my mommy
and daddy longed in their hearts for a very long time for me, so I’m
glad I’m finally here with them. So I’m going to let my mommy tell
our story on how, I became their, daughter. The luckiest girl in the
world!!
Well it all started in
February 2006 with a phone call from Ashley our birth mom. She had
seen our profile on adoption.com and wanted to talk with us. We
talked for a few days getting to know one another along with getting
to know Ashley’s mom Rene’ our biological grandma. In talking with
Ashley it was as if I had known her for a long time. Ashley and her
mom were both very easy to talk with. They had said they were very
interested in a family from New York, but as they got to know them
they had questions. That’s what brought them to our profile. They
liked the fact that I was going to be a stay at home mom, along with
us being very close with our families. As the days went on we all
were getting to know each other and things seemed to be moving right
along. They had asked us to have family and friends write a letter
about how we would be as parents and send them to them so they could
get a feel for us. So that’s what we did. But, two days later when I
called to talk with Ashley, her mom answered and said they had
changed their mind, they were going with the family from New York.
My heart dropped. She said to call Ashley on her cell phone. Well, I
left a message for Ashley. It went something like this: I understand
you’ve decided to go with the other family, I hope you all find
peace and happiness and I wish you all luck, thank you for taking
the time to get to know us.
As I left the message,
tears were falling down my face. I called Jim to let him know. I
could hear the sadness in his voice. ” He said that God is looking
out for us, and He’s just waiting for the right time, not to worry
it will happen”. So needless to say we were both very sad. We also
had to deal with all the letters our family and friends wrote for
us. I felt so bad they all took the time and here they sit. Well,
Jim decided we were going to Florida, on vacation to get a better
perspective on things. Up to this point it had been a long road
talking with birth moms, not being chosen time after time. So time
away sounded good. Before we left I was still feeling sad and Jim
said, “you know what will make you feel better, give you closure,
send those letters”. So I did!! And on February 28th, I got the best
phone call I could have ever imagined!!! Rene’ called and said “they
received our letters and they’ve been reading them. To please call
her back they didn’t want to make a mistake and go with the other
family”. I called Jim so fast. My heart was beating like crazy, I
had tears in my eyes and I was shaking. Could this be happening?!!
The next few days were crazy!!. We all talked on the phone asking
questions, talking to attorneys and working things out. Ashley and
Rene’ wanted to meet us. So on March 6th we flew out of Ontario
Airport at 11 pm arriving in Atlanta Georgia at 5 am with a
connecting flight to Dayton Ohio at 8 am. Then off to Lima Ohio in
our rented Trail blazer. To meet with Ashley, Rene, Jessica and
Aleia ( Ashley’s 16 month old daughter and Alexis’s biological
sister). It was snowing when we arrived!
We were all meeting for
dinner. We got a little lost in route to the restaurant so we called
Rene’ for directions and she said she and Ashley would meet us up
front. Then we finally meet! We hugged each other, really hugged
each other. It’s a moment that myself and Jim will never forget! We
had a great dinner, very relaxed easy going. It was, Perfect!
The next day we were
meeting Ashley’s attorney so Jim and I met Ashley and Rene’ at
MacDonald’s for breakfast. They had the best hot chocolate that I
ever tasted, it was great! We sat and talked and ate and as we were
leaving it was snowing. It was a perfect picture.
As we drove thru this
beautiful old town they pointed out the Hospital that our daughter
will be born in. The drive was very surreal. And it was still
slightly snowing.
We meet with the
attorneys’ assistant in this great office with a wall lined
bookshelf that we all took pictures in front of.
We all left the
attorneys office and we followed Ashley and Rene’ through town
again, they called our cell phone and wanted us to pull over and
give us something. So we did. It was a card, our first card….
Congratulations Mommy and Daddy.
As we were driving down
this beautiful stretch of highway with trees on each side the snow
falling gently down, it was quite in the car. It was at that moment
I turned to Jim with tear filled eyes and said, “We’re going to be a
Mommy and Daddy! He smiled!!
On March 27, 2006 at
11:58 am---- an angel was born, Alexis Marie
Weighing in at 5 lbs 10 oz
Her length was 18 ¼ inches long
Her mommy and daddy
cried tears of joy! Our prayers have been answered! God blessed us
with a sweet baby girl !!
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